Part 2: The Existential Wound — The Human Cost of Denying Reality
- Michael Fierro
- Apr 26
- 3 min read
The denial of reality is not merely an abstract mistake. It is a wound, a wound that cuts into the deepest places of the human soul.
When truth, goodness, and essence are abandoned, the collapse is not only cultural and political. It is personal. It is existential. It leaves human beings alienated not only from the world, but from themselves, from one another, and from God.
This is the existential wound of modern man: a profound rupture between the human heart and the reality for which it was made.

The Alienation of the Self
When being is denied, identity collapses. Without a real essence grounding the self, there is no stable "I" to know, to love, or to offer.
The self becomes a project, a performance, or a brand, endlessly reconstructed but never truly possessed. Identity is no longer something discovered; it is something invented, marketed, and defended anxiously. The person becomes a flickering image on a screen, ever-changing, untethered, and unreal.
Beneath the noise, the human heart knows it has lost itself.
The Alienation from Others
Real connection between persons depends on recognizing that the other is real, good, and worthy of love for their own sake. But if there is no stable reality, if all is power and performance, then every relationship becomes tainted by suspicion. Every bond is fragile. Every act of apparent love is interpreted cynically as self-interest, manipulation, or domination.
Thus the deep longing for communion that lives in every human soul goes unanswered. Loneliness deepens. Distrust hardens. The possibility of real love seems more and more like a naive dream, and many, tragically, give up hoping for it at all.
The Alienation from God
Finally, and most devastatingly, the collapse of being severs the soul from its Creator. If there is no objective reality, no truth, no goodness, no beauty, then what remains to point man toward God?
Religion becomes either a private coping mechanism or a tool of social control, but either way, it is emptied of its true meaning, a real relationship with the Real itself.
Man, made to live in the light of eternal Love, instead wanders in darkness, thirsting for transcendence, but refusing the water that alone can quench the thirst.
The False Remedies
Sensing their misery but not understanding its cause, modern men and women reach for any remedy they can grasp.
Pop psychology offers mantras of self-esteem and positive thinking. Politics offers identity and purpose through activism and resentment. Technology offers distraction, novelty, and the illusion of connection. Pharmaceuticals offer numbness, a silence of the heart rather than its healing.
But none of these touch the root of the wound. Because the wound is not merely emotional. It is not social. It is not chemical.
It is existential. It is the pain of being cut off from what is most real.
And so the more desperately the modern world tries to heal itself without returning to reality, the deeper the wound becomes.
The Crisis at the Center
The deepest misery of the modern world is not material poverty, nor even political oppression. It is the poverty of being, the starvation of the soul, the collapse of connection, the ache of a heart made for love and meaning but lost in a wasteland of self-constructed illusions.
We cannot heal ourselves with better techniques, more distractions, or louder slogans. The wound cannot be closed by willpower alone. It can only be healed by returning to what is real.
Only by returning to being can man rediscover himself.
Before we can be healed, we must learn to see again.
To see reality.
To see truth.
To see love.
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